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Not As We Planned
Podcast

Not As We Planned

Tash Gershfield & Carly Harris

151 episodes

New episodes every Thursday, with exclusive bonus episodes every Monday on Patreon. Welcome to Not As We Planned, the honest podcast about relationships, dating, marriage, divorce and motherhood, and all the things no one really talks about. From becoming a mum and navigating divorce, to rebuilding life as a single mum and dating again in your 30s, we’re sharing the real, messy and unexpected sides of it all. Life doesn’t always go to plan, and neither do relationships. This is a space for open conversations, shared experiences and saying the things most people avoid. If you have a question or want to share your story, email us at notasweplannedpodcast@gmail.com Join Our Community Get our weekly BONUS episode: https://patreon.com/c/NotAsWePlanned (https://www.patreon.com/c/NotAsWePlanned) Follow the Podcast: @notasweplanned_podcast (https://www.instagram.com/notasweplanned_podcast/) Tash: @tash_blake_ivy (https://www.instagram.com/tash_blake_ivy/) Carly: @iamcarlyharris (https://www.instagram.com/iamcarlyharris/) Get the Planner: https://notasweplanned.shop (https://notasweplanned.shop/) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

Episodes

Young Parents, 3 Million Followers And Life Behind The Kern Family
Young Parents, 3 Million Followers And Life Behind The Kern Family
Sep 2, 2026 · 1h 26m
I Gave My Cheating Husband A Second Chance… 10 Years Later I Regret It
I Gave My Cheating Husband A Second Chance… 10 Years Later I Regret It
Aug 26, 2026 · 40 min
My Boyfriend Faked Cancer While My Mum Was Dying
My Boyfriend Faked Cancer While My Mum Was Dying
Aug 19, 2026 · 37 min
I Married The Wrong Person… But It Led Me To The Love Of My Life
I Married The Wrong Person… But It Led Me To The Love Of My Life
Aug 12, 2026 · 42 min
Hollie Dowding: Surviving Domestic Violence... How I Finally Sent My Abuser To Prison
Hollie Dowding: Surviving Domestic Violence... How I Finally Sent My Abuser To Prison
Aug 5, 2026 · 1h 13m
My Husband Is The Perfect Dad… So Why Do I Think He’s Cheating?
My Husband Is The Perfect Dad… So Why Do I Think He’s Cheating?
Jul 29, 2026 · 36 min
I Finally Left My Toxic Relationship… So Why Do I Miss Him?
I Finally Left My Toxic Relationship… So Why Do I Miss Him?
Jul 22, 2026 · 41 min
Why So Many Boys Are Struggling Today & What Parents Can Do with Raising Boys 2 Men
Why So Many Boys Are Struggling Today & What Parents Can Do with Raising Boys 2 Men
Jul 15, 2026 · 1h 14m
My Best Friend Lied To Me For 10 Years…
My Best Friend Lied To Me For 10 Years…
Jul 8, 2026 · 43 min
He Faked Cancer While I Was Pregnant
He Faked Cancer While I Was Pregnant
Jul 1, 2026 · 51 min
He Ghosted Me For 5 Weeks… Then Came Back Like Nothing Happened
He Ghosted Me For 5 Weeks… Then Came Back Like Nothing Happened
Jun 24, 2026 · 37 min
My Husband’s Entire Life Was A Lie
My Husband’s Entire Life Was A Lie
Jun 17, 2026 · 39 min
He Didn’t Forget My Birthday, He Ignored It
He Didn’t Forget My Birthday, He Ignored It
Jun 10, 2026 · 44 min
He Left Me For a Man
He Left Me For a Man
Jun 3, 2026 · 38 min
Omg That’s NEW Information…I’m Terrified!!
Omg That’s NEW Information…I’m Terrified!!
May 27, 2026 · 47 min
I'm Always The One That's Left
I'm Always The One That's Left
May 21, 2026 · 50 min
I Trusted Him 100% Until I Checked His Phone
I Trusted Him 100% Until I Checked His Phone
May 13, 2026 · 44 min
How Many Red Flags Did I Ignore?
How Many Red Flags Did I Ignore?
May 6, 2026 · 50 min
I Was Ghosted 5 Years Into Our Relationship | Not As We Planned Podcast
I Was Ghosted 5 Years Into Our Relationship | Not As We Planned Podcast
Apr 29, 2026 · 40 min
I Found Out He's Been In Prison | Not As We Planned Podcast
I Found Out He's Been In Prison | Not As We Planned Podcast
Apr 22, 2026 · 53 min
Turning Pain Into Power | Not As We Planned Podcast
Turning Pain Into Power | Not As We Planned Podcast
Apr 15, 2026 · 46 min
I Can't Stop Comparing Myself to His Ex | Not As We Planned Podcast
I Can't Stop Comparing Myself to His Ex | Not As We Planned Podcast
Apr 8, 2026 · 40 min
My Ex is my Guilty Pleasure | Not As We Planned Podcast
My Ex is my Guilty Pleasure | Not As We Planned Podcast
Apr 1, 2026 · 39 min
Should I Have an Affair? | Not As We Planned Podcast
Should I Have an Affair? | Not As We Planned Podcast
Mar 26, 2026 · 42 min
Colin @loudsingledad: Our First Male Guest! A Man’s Perspective on Separation, Coparenting & Dating! | Not As We Planned Podcast
Colin @loudsingledad: Our First Male Guest! A Man’s Perspective on Separation, Coparenting & Dating! | Not As We Planned Podcast
Mar 19, 2026 · 1h 16m
When Hope Ends Up Costing You A Lot | Not As We Planned Podcast
When Hope Ends Up Costing You A Lot | Not As We Planned Podcast
Mar 12, 2026 · 43 min
Sabrina Zohar: Everything You Need to Know About Dating & Relationships | Not As We Planned Podcast
Sabrina Zohar: Everything You Need to Know About Dating & Relationships | Not As We Planned Podcast
Mar 5, 2026 · 1h 10m
I Can’t Stop Sleeping With My Daughters Boyfriend | Not As We Planned Podcast
I Can’t Stop Sleeping With My Daughters Boyfriend | Not As We Planned Podcast
Feb 25, 2026 · 40 min
Poor Excuse of a Man | Not As We Planned Podcast
Poor Excuse of a Man | Not As We Planned Podcast
Feb 19, 2026 · 42 min
You Need To Leave This Relationship NOW!! | Not As We Planned Podcast
You Need To Leave This Relationship NOW!! | Not As We Planned Podcast
Feb 12, 2026 · 41 min
The Worst Affair Story You've Ever Heard | Not As We Planned Podcast
The Worst Affair Story You've Ever Heard | Not As We Planned Podcast
Feb 5, 2026 · 49 min
Me & My Boyfriend Broke Up | Not As We Planned Podcast
Me & My Boyfriend Broke Up | Not As We Planned Podcast
Jan 29, 2026 · 48 min
Nicole is this me: A Real & Raw Conversation About Her Husband's Affair | Not As We Planned Podcast
Nicole is this me: A Real & Raw Conversation About Her Husband's Affair | Not As We Planned Podcast
Jan 22, 2026 · 1h 3m
I've Been Sleeping With My Boss... Who's Married
I've Been Sleeping With My Boss... Who's Married
Jan 15, 2026 · 44 min
Shelley J Whitehead: How to Heal Your Heartbreak, Set Boundaries and Gain Self Worth.
Shelley J Whitehead: How to Heal Your Heartbreak, Set Boundaries and Gain Self Worth.
Jan 8, 2026 · 58 min
Don’t Be a Ho Ho Ho!! | Not As We Planned Podcast
Don’t Be a Ho Ho Ho!! | Not As We Planned Podcast
Dec 18, 2025 · 48 min
The Neighbourhood Bicycle Where Everyone Had a Ride | Not As We Planned Podcast
The Neighbourhood Bicycle Where Everyone Had a Ride | Not As We Planned Podcast
Dec 11, 2025 · 49 min
Jessica Miller: The Truth Behind The Breakdown Of Her Marriage And All The In-Between | Not As We Planned Podcast
Jessica Miller: The Truth Behind The Breakdown Of Her Marriage And All The In-Between | Not As We Planned Podcast
Dec 4, 2025 · 1h 12m
The Truth Is They Never Change... | Not As We Planned Podcast
The Truth Is They Never Change... | Not As We Planned Podcast
Nov 27, 2025 · 47 min
The Not So Magic Mike Show... | Not As We Planned Podcast
The Not So Magic Mike Show... | Not As We Planned Podcast
Nov 20, 2025 · 41 min
The Messy Wife Swap | Not As We Planned Podcast
The Messy Wife Swap | Not As We Planned Podcast
Nov 13, 2025 · 51 min
When Your Situationship Even Lied About His Name!!! | Not As We Planned Podcast
When Your Situationship Even Lied About His Name!!! | Not As We Planned Podcast
Nov 6, 2025 · 50 min
The Intentional Affair | Not As We Planned Podcast
The Intentional Affair | Not As We Planned Podcast
Oct 30, 2025 · 43 min
Jessica May: the untold events of her partner's affair and the signs that she ignored | Not As We Planned Podcast
Jessica May: the untold events of her partner's affair and the signs that she ignored | Not As We Planned Podcast
Oct 22, 2025 · 1h 10m
It's Giving Desperate Housewives | Not As We Planned Podcast
It's Giving Desperate Housewives | Not As We Planned Podcast
Oct 15, 2025 · 39 min
Legally Nik: Answering Your Questions About Coparenting, Dealing With Narcissist's & A 50/50 Split | Not As We Planned Podcast
Legally Nik: Answering Your Questions About Coparenting, Dealing With Narcissist's & A 50/50 Split | Not As We Planned Podcast
Oct 8, 2025 · 55 min
Sending A Nude Into The School Group Chat!!! | Not As We Planned Podcast
Sending A Nude Into The School Group Chat!!! | Not As We Planned Podcast
Oct 1, 2025 · 44 min
I Got Eaten Alive!! The Dating Episode You Don't Want To Miss! | Not As We Planned Podcast
I Got Eaten Alive!! The Dating Episode You Don't Want To Miss! | Not As We Planned Podcast
Sep 24, 2025 · 40 min
Should You Date Multiple Men At The Same Time?? | Not As We Planned Podcast
Should You Date Multiple Men At The Same Time?? | Not As We Planned Podcast
Sep 17, 2025 · 42 min
The hack to find deleted messages on your phone!!!  | Not As We Planned Podcast
The hack to find deleted messages on your phone!!! | Not As We Planned Podcast
Sep 11, 2025 · 42 min